It's just possible that you've come to a crunch point. True, this may be more work than pleasure-related. Acknowledging that something has to give and that new boundaries must be found may be made necessary by the stance that another Fixed sign friend takes (a Leo, Scorpio or an Aquarius). You know they can't have it all - but perhaps they feel the same way about you. Locating their (and your!) sense of humour is imperative. True, you might also find a degree of black humour in a tricky situation. It's likely too that you'll forge a deep bond with someone who has a knack for seeing things from a zany perspective. This could make all the difference to how you negotiate the coming lunar eclipse on 25th and the emotional gear change it brings.